{"id":707,"date":"2013-02-19T10:50:35","date_gmt":"2013-02-19T17:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.goodseed.com\/blog\/?p=707"},"modified":"2016-02-24T12:29:22","modified_gmt":"2016-02-24T19:29:22","slug":"i-dont-know-what-to-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.goodseed.com\/blog\/2013\/02\/19\/i-dont-know-what-to-say\/","title":{"rendered":"I don\u2019t know what to say!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-752\" title=\"I don't know what to say!\" src=\"http:\/\/www.goodseed.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/dont-know-what-to-say.jpg\" alt=\"I don't know what to say!\" width=\"849\" height=\"565\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.goodseed.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/dont-know-what-to-say.jpg 849w, https:\/\/www.goodseed.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/dont-know-what-to-say-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Paul said to Jill, the waitress for his table, &#8220;Thank you so much for taking care of me today. I\u2019ve really enjoyed chatting with you and I\u2019d like to thank you by giving you a book. It\u2019s about the Bible and it explains it from A to Z in an objective, non-arm-twisting manner. It really helped me understand what the Bible is all about and I\u2019d like you to have this copy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Jill took the book and broke into a wide smile, \u201cOh, what a surprise. Thank you! I\u2019ll read this book!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>How do some people do that? That is, know the right words to say when wanting to give away the gospel? Even when we have made up our minds to be obedient to the biblical mandate to be ambassadors for Christ, even when we\u2019ve prepared ourselves with a Be Ready Box full of tools to give away, and even if we recognize the opportunities that God has placed in front of us, we often hesitate because the overpowering thought that is running through our minds is, \u201cI don\u2019t know what to say!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Here are some sample scripts to help you. Try them out; practice with a close friend; adapt them to suit your personality and situation. Ask God for help and then just speak.<\/p>\n<h5>Give Away Scenarios<\/h5>\n<h6>When talking to a plumber or handyman or mechanic<\/h6>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cThank you for coming by to help me fix the (washer, pipes, oven, etc.). I really appreciate it. Here is a token of my appreciation. It\u2019s a book that I read that really helped me understand what the Bible is about. It explains in simple and clear language the main message of the Bible. I\u2019d like to give this copy to you as a thank you. Enjoy it!\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h6><strong>When conversing with someone who has shared certain aspects of his worldview<\/strong><\/h6>\n<blockquote><p>(For example, if in the course of the conversation, he mentioned \u201creligion,\u201d \u201ckarma,\u201d or \u201cfate\u201d)<em> \u201cYou know when you were talking about religion (karma, etc.), I used to think that way too. I have found a book that really helped me understand things like that better. It\u2019s actually a book about the Bible. I\u2019d like to give it to you.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h6><strong>When conversing with someone on the plane, train or bus<\/strong><\/h6>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cI\u2019ve enjoyed our brief conversation. I\u2019d like to give you something. This is a book that helped me understand the Bible\u2019s message. It made sense\u2014and whether one chooses to believe the Bible or not, it leaves that choice up to the reader. I\u2019d like you to have it.\u00a0 Enjoy!\u00a0 Have a great flight (trip, day, weekend, etc.)!\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Knowing what to say helps calm our nerves and fear in passing out the gospel. But it is also helpful to remember two things: 1) we are representatives of the most important message in the world so we shouldn\u2019t hold back, and 2) from most people\u2019s experiences, it is very rare that the person to whom you want to give the gospel will outright reject you. Even if they did, do not let that discourage you. For every person that may reject you, others who took the tool might just have found eternal life through it. And for those who came to faith in Christ, this risk of rejection will be worth it.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>Guide A Course Opportunities<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Sometimes, God leads us into situations where a family member, a close friend or an acquaintance asks us about the \u2018big\u2019 questions in life: the ones pertaining to evil, how we got here, why we are here, or final-authority type of questions\u2014<em>why<\/em> we believe what we believe, etc.<\/p>\n<p>This is an opportunity to offer to guide that friend through a course that explains the Bible\u2019s core message. You could say something like the following:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cBill, you are asking some good questions. Actually, when it comes to the subject of worldviews, of life, death and life after death, the Bible has a lot to say.\u00a0 It\u2019s a big book!\u00a0 But I\u2019ve read it, even studied it.\u00a0 And I found it answered most of my questions in a way that made sense!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I also enjoy teaching it as an objective overview.\u00a0 The Course is called, \u2018Worldview Rethink.\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>What I like about the course is whether one chooses to believe the Bible or not, that decision is left with the student.\u00a0 There\u2019s no arm-twisting\u2014it just lets the Bible speak for itself.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Would you care to join me and my wife for several evenings and go through this course together?\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You\u2019ve made the offer and your friend may jump at the chance or he will come back to you some time later and say yes. Whichever the response, it pays to be prepared. Train yourself first and then pray for God to bring people to you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You spotted an opportunity to share the gospel. You have a book to give and you&#8217;re ready. But what do you say? How do you broach the topic? 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